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*B just got off the phone*

A: So you love her, yeah?

B: Yeah, man. It's great.

A: What's that? Being pussy whipped?

B: Being in love.

A: How do you know you love her? Who is she anyway?

B: I can't tell who she is, and you don't explain love. You just know it.

A: Why can't you tell me? Afraid she's been passed around before? Don't wanna be disappointed?

B: No, but what do I gain in telling you? What do you gain in me telling you?

A: Nothing, but you never gained anything in me knowing who your mom is. You love your mom don't you?

B: Sure I do.

A: And I know who your mom is. So what difference does it make if I knew a woman you loved?

B: I don't think it's the same thing. There is no way you can not know who my mother is. But there is a way to make you not know who the girl I love is.

A: "A way"? Don't you mean "a reason"?

B: What would that reason be?

A: That you don't want anyone to know who the girl you say you love is?

B: Uh-huh?

A: Because you know 85% of all the guys will think she's a bitch.

B: I don't care what people think.

A: Yeah? Then why don't you tell people who she is.

B: Because there's nothing that forces me to do so.

A: Okay. But you did say that you don't care what people thought. And clearly you think of yourself as such an asshole that you convince yourself that you love this girl, and you show it. You admit that you love her. But then you say you don't care if people thought she was a bitch if they knew her. So prove it.

B: I don't have to prove it.

A: Because you know it's wrong?

B: No.

A: Then why is it secretive?

B: Because I choose it to be.

A: You know who keep things secretive? Guilty people. Robbers, murderers, everybody who's done something 'bad', for a general term. Oh and you know what happens to guilty people when they confess?

B: What's that?

A: They get fucked. They either go to jail, or they are forced to put up with how they are frowned upon.

B: Are you saying that loving a girl is the same as murdering someone?

A: No, I'm saying you obviously feel the same guilt as someone who killed someone. And I'm saying you know that you, or her actually, will get fucked if you confess or let it be known who she is.

B: You're an idiot.

A: Am I? Think about it. You say you don't care what people think. You say you're convinced that what you're doing is right. But you fail to admit the whole thing. It's like when some guy marries a second wife. If he knows he's guilty, he doesn't make it known.

B: But I did say I am in love. So I'm admitting it.

A: Yeah? I have a meter long cock. I'm admitting it too. I'll prove it if you prove that you don't care what people think.

B: That's biologically impossible.

A: It's logically impossible for you to convince yourself you love a girl too.

B: What? Why?

A: Because you don't have any reason to think that. Not even if your subconscious wants to fuck her so bad, and not even if your consciousness tells you that that admitting that will drive her away. So you submit it for 'love'. That's what you show the world. That you love her. When you obviously don't

B: Like I said, you're an idiot.

A: Do you think she will mind if you told me who she was?

B: Sure she'll mind. She already thinks of you as an idiot.

A: She minds because she knows what she's doing is wrong. She feels guilty too.

B: So what, now you're an expert on introspection?

A: No, I just know wassup. Do you think her dad knows about you?

B: He doesn't.

A: Does her dad know she has a male lecturer at school?

B: He does.

A: So it's not just about her being 'exposed' to a male human being. It's about the way she is exposed. You think her mother will be okay with you fucking her?

B: I don't wanna fuck her.

A: Okay, you're gay, I get it. That's not the question, do you think her mother will be okay with you fucking her?

B: No.

A: So what makes it okay that you talk to her?

B: You're saying sleeping with a girl is the same as being in love with her?

A: No, I'm saying there isn't any 'degree of error'. What's wrong, is wrong. Sure, a wrong doing may be 'lighter' than another wrong doing. But doing a certain degree of an error, and not commiting the larger error as if you're making the first, lighter error into a right thing .. is just bullshit.

B: You have way too much time on your hands. What does that even mean?

A: It means that, just like saying that 'two wrongs don't make it right', doing one wrong alone does not make it right.

B: What makes it wrong? That I talk to her and love her?

A: Besides your faith? The fact that you're keeping it secretive. The fact that she knows it's wrong in keeping it not known. Not even to her father.

B: But I, well, WE, are not doing anything wrong.

A: Let me get this straight. You think of her as the girl you love, but whom you're not married to. Basically, the concept of a girlfriend in certain cultures.

B: Yes.

A: But you don't live with her, and you don't go out with her.

B: I go out with her. But living with her is wrong.

A: Now I know you think of yourself as an asshole. It's not about the 'degree of error'. What's the difference between living with someone and going out with someone?

B: You're saying they're the same thing?

A: Tell you what. Think of someone, ANYONE, whom you know, but don't want anyone to know who they are; whom you go out with; but whom you know living with is wrong; i.e. if you could find anyone who it is 'okay to go out with' but 'not okay to live with'; also, make sure that they feel the same way. I.e. that they say it's okay to be with you, but don't want anyone to know who they are. Like a person who is ashamed.
That they're okay with going out with you, for a certain period of time; but still think it's wrong to live with you. Then, and only then, will we talk.
You blame everything on emotions. Thinking that it makes you sound, or seem, or feel even, compassionate. Caring. Loving. Whatever it is. 'Cute', even. But the fact of the matter is, it makes you look like an idiot. You and the idiot who believes you love her. You know how I know that you know what you're doing is wrong?
It's because you have a way out. Something that makes you think will make it all 'okay' and 'understandable'.
That's by you saying, and by her thinking, that whatever it is you have now will 'end in marriage'.
If it's so bloody right to you, emotionally and logically, then why do you have something like marriage as 'the end' that makes it all right? Why do you have a way out?